I'm sorry for your loss. I went through that with Lovecraft and his stomach cancer. He told me he was ready to go when he would no longer allow me to do the sub-cu treatments.

Sorry about the car - that totally sucks. At least, it seems like you won't be out any money to fix it, since the hybrid dude caused the wreck in the first place.

Good luck with it all. I'd offer you a massage, but you're not near me, unfortunately! :)