And by the way -- I'm not kidding here, you don't seem to believe me, but take it from someone who's been there -- the more you defend your questionable actions, the worse it reflects on you.
The reason why I'm coming in here and answering your questions and trying to point out the areas where you're doing yourself harm is because ... well, because I think it's right, for one thing, but more specifically, because I like you and I don't want to see you insulting people and making yourself look bad. Which is what you're doing right now. If you have questions, I'll answer them, but you have to be willing to listen in return.
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Date: 2008-06-17 11:35 pm (UTC)The reason why I'm coming in here and answering your questions and trying to point out the areas where you're doing yourself harm is because ... well, because I think it's right, for one thing, but more specifically, because I like you and I don't want to see you insulting people and making yourself look bad. Which is what you're doing right now. If you have questions, I'll answer them, but you have to be willing to listen in return.